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I typically wouldn’t write a post of this nature here on Mommy Daddy Blog but hey, we’re all grown here right? 
While on our stay in Chicago, we visited a couple of friends of ours. They hadn’t seen us since Sheena was pregnant, so this was their first time seeing Jayden. So of course, there were many ooo’s and ahhh’s over Jayden and tons of questions for us about how it felt to be new parents. Most of the questions were directed towards the both of us, but then there was one that was directed at just me…
“So Greg, does the fact that Sheena breastfeeds now affect the way you view her boobs?”
Wooow, wasn’t expecting that one! We’ve had people ask us tons of questions on being new parents, but never that one. So after glancing over at Sheena and seeing that you-better-answer-this-question-right look in her face, I gave our friend the following response (which, by the way, is the less explicit version)…
I still view them as sexy like I always have. The fact that they are now milk jugs with skin doesn’t affect my attraction towards them at all. I’ll admit, it is kind of weird “in the sack” when I’m “paying special attention to them” and realizing that I’m fondling Jayden’s midnight snack. It’s also weird realizing the fact that milk can come shooting out at me at any moment (because it HAS happened before, but that’s a story for another day!). But yes, although weird in a couple of ways, I’m still attracted to them just as much as I was before they became Jayden’s dinner plate. In fact, the fullness and plumpness of them now have my hormones through the roof! Now, when they get old, wrinkly, and sag down to the floor is a totally different story!
I’M KIDDING!!! I’ll still love her grandma boobs just as much!
So now I want some input from the ladies and fellas! Guys, do you (or did you) still find your breastfeeding wife’s rack attractive although they are now (or were) milk fountains? And breastfeeding ladies, does your (or did your) husband still find the “girls” (as Sheena calls them) attractive? How did you initially think he would feel about them?
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I used to be a 32A, but after I gave birth and while breastfeeding, I suddenly have these babies who seem to want to get out of my bras! I suddenly look good in my tops with plunging necklines. And since my tummy was basically the only thing (aside from my “girls”) that got big during pregnancy, I was envied by most girls in the office.
And yeah, those squirting during my intimate moments with the husband can be embarassing, but the husband is too busy enjoying the “girls” to care.
I think, milk or no milk, the husband just loves the fact that I’m not flat chested anymore. And yes, Daddy Greg, he shares your thoughts on the future of these “babies,” so kudos to husbands like you!
Gotta to say this post made me laugh!!!! Yes my husband Love the girls before and after milk and all!!!!
WE didn’t think about how weird it would be cause his take on it was they are his and our daughter was just *borrowing them* I mean *sharing* for a while for he took the fullness the milk etc,, very well
Thanks for sharing this post!
I had a good laugh at this post as well! The hubster read it and actually said one of his friend asked him the same thing. I never knew that. He quickly responded that he’d love the twin when then are sagging to the floor too. He had better say that! lol
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Oh my goodness! I love this post! LOL! I’ve been having my own booby issues since they started leaking a few weeks ago. Hubby loves the boobies and has since pre-pregnancy, but they’re so sensitive I can’t really enjoy him enjoying them. And I’m more freaked out about stuff coming out of them than he is! I’m not used to my changing body yet, hubby’s adapting just fine though. But hubby says he’ll still love my boobies even if they end up looking like a rock in a tube sock. LOL!
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That post title is so funny!! Now I did not breastfeed, but the ‘girls’ got pretty big from pregnancy and my hubby was very turned off by them. Once I gave birth and my milk came in he was afraid of them! Yes, orange cooler man was scared like hell! LOL!! He said they were too big. Imagine that. He could not wait for them to shrink back down. He says he like his regular Shelly best. Now I am back to my little ‘girls’ and he’s happy!
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This question is so funny! I have thought about this a million times and have actually discussed it with my hubby. I never breast fed but the line became blurred for me. It seemed like once I thought of them as a “food source” it would be hard for me think about them the other way. But life is teaching me so much I think if I was to have a baby now, I would breast feed and appreciate the “extra” in the sack. I love how Greg says “paying special attention” to the milk jugs with skin. Just too funny!
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NAW, DAWG, I don’t get down with that. I like regular, squeeze and no surprise type. When they were filled up, I wanted nothing to do with them. Made me uncomfortable, but when they went down and was back to normal. I was ready to play! You’re a better man than me Dawg! But don’t get me wrong, baby girl was looking good. She has an hour glass figure, that would make Black Rob say- whoa! Peace ( I know I ‘m stupid)
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I was hopping around and came across this and couldn’t help but laugh out loud. I was so flat chested before having kids, even though he claims he doesn’t care, I loved finally having boobs from the breastfeeding. I was the one who felt weird about playing with the baby’s dinner and the accidental leaking when excited, but he swore he didn’t mind and kind of found it a little sexy.
Different men, different tastes.
Ohh, what a catchy title and topic!! Nice to see the versatility. And yes, we’re are all grown. (I hope…lol)
My girls were and still are sexy to hubby. Whenever I weaned my babies he would be soooo happy…lol. Now when my little one comes around and hints towards wanting them, hubby says uh, uh, they are mine now. So he’s cool with sharing them for a time but when it’s time to wean he’s all game in helping me out with the process.
Greg~ I know you was just kiddin’ with that old, wrinkly joke..ha, ha.
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Good one! Like many, I developed newfound cleavage when breastfeeding set in, to which my hubby responded “va voom!” He’s always told me he loves my body, but it’s nice to have the top of the hourglass filled out a bit, as it were!
At first he was a little confused as to whether the boobs were now off limits but I think he really followed my cue. When I let him know it was still okay to play we were all good. But I have to say we’ve never had any squirting incidents!
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LMAO, Greg you make me laugh, I was about to slap you for Sheena when I read about “grandma boobs” lol…. You recovered well!
We never had an issue, I never breastfed or produced milk at all so Rodney (my husband) never had any issue at all, although they did ‘Grow” and he loved that, no milk issues for us.
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I ronically for me it was me who felt less sexy - my hubby is a breast man all day everyday, so the whole breatfeeding thing doesn’t bother me in the least. The whole idea that I had become a food recpticle was annoying and made it difficult for me to make the switch from mom to lover easily.
I don’t remember having that issue with my first daughter.. It did go away when I decided to stop breast feeding after eight and a half months. Took another month or so.
Hahahah.. this entry made me giggle. Way to go, Greg. Heh. Dave won’t answer this question, so I’ll answer for him. Since having the baby, my boobage has gone from 32A to 36B. He can’t stop staring at them, fondling them, and at one point even helped me express milk from them. lol I think it’s safe to say that he finds them just as attractive now as he ever did before. Heh. It’s also neat to see that I’ve noticed he’s gotten a lot more gentle since they’ve become “milk jugs” so to speak. It’s quite sweet.
My husband still finds them um…arousing, yeah I guess that’s a good word for it. But I, even a year later (our daughter will be one on Sunday), hate him touching them. I know I’ll feel different after I finish breastfeeding, I did after I finished breastfeeding our older daughter. But it’s just really weird to me and I hate when they leak.
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Found you via Adoptic…and had to chime in on this one! Pre-twins’ birth, I was a scant 36 B — in the year we nursed a 40 D! I kept my nursing bra just because I know no one would ever believe it now, six years later.
Darling blog…love that picture of the three of you at the top. I’ll be back for sure.
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My husband says they are just as sexy now, and he doesn’t mind sharing them too much. We don’t have a problem with them shooting milk, especially now that our daughter is older and my supply has adjusted. It’s been far easier than I thought for them to multitask, and I hate that some women don’t breastfeed because they are worried about that!
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Very funny post I sure did get a kick out of it. To be honest I don’t remember how my husband reacted to the whole milk thing. I do remember he was thanking god for the size of them.
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My wife is quite petite and the milk laden breasts looked pretty good on her! Without getting into too many details, let’s just say I didn’t mind the milk issue.
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